Jan 21, 2020
We’re survivors of high control religious environments? What? Irenicast co-hosts offer the (sometimes) uncomfortable awareness that if you were in an evangelical/fundamentalist community, much of your life, inside and outside of church, was probably highly controlled.
The conversation includes the harmful legacy of growing up and living within a highly controlled religious environment. For example, strong leadership equals controlling people; vulnerability is exploited and access to “worldly” information is heavily managed.
Each co-host shares their own experiences of how being part of a high control religious environment impacted them developmentally and psychically. Using recent research as inspiration, co-hosts tell how they are healing from the realities of being both victims and participants in controlling religious communities.
The episode ends with a rousing round of Appledash. Let’s just say -- for people leaving evangelical/fundamentalist faith, delayed adolescence is real.
Conversation on High Control Religious Environments (01:05)
Appledash Segment (52:17)
RELEVANT LINKS
From Our Conversation on High Control Religious Environments
- Cracking the Cult Code for Therapists: What Every Cult Victim Wants Their Therapist to Know by Bonnie Zieman (Book - Amazon Affiliate Link - This is the book Allen is primarily referencing in this episode)
- Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt (Netflix Show)
- Infidel by Ayaan Hirsi Ali (Book - Amazon Affiliate Link)
- How We Fight for Our Lives: A Memoir by Saeed Jones (Book - Amazon Affiliate Link)
- Educated: A Memoir by Tara Westover (Book - Amazon Affiliate Link)
- Learned Helplessness (Psychological Term)
- Epic of Gilgamesh (Creation Myth)
- The Five Stages of the Soul: Charting the Spiritual Passages by Harry R. Moody and David Carroll (Book - Amazon Affiliate Link)
- Paul Rudd Hot Ones Meme
From Our Appledash Segment (Appledash has also been played on episodes #024 and #081)
- Apples 2 Apples (Board Game - Amazon Affiliate Link)
- Balderdash (Board Game - Amazon Affiliate Link)
- Bumfuzzle
- Sackbut
- One of Allen’s Hurdy Gurdy Videos
- Otiose
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Rev. Bonnie Rambob, MDiv | co-host | bonnie@irenicast.com
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Pastor Casey Tinnin, MTS | co-host | casey@irenicast.com
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Jeff Manildi | co-founder, producer & co-host | jeff@irenicast.com
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CREDITS
Intro and Outro music created by Mike Golin.
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